When a child is added to my class, I like to conference with them. I use the structure of an Identity Web, which I learned this from Sara Ahmed, to guide our discussion. This Tuesday came with a new addition to my Perioid 1 class and with 15 minutes left in class, I asked B to join me for a 1-on-1 conference.
As I drew a circle in the middle of a blank piece of paper, I wrote her name in the middle of it. Off of this middle circle, I extended lines and added the labels: education, interests, and family.
Tell me about where you went to school last year. I learned she was at another middle school in our district and before that, she attended the Spanish Emergent elementary school. “I am friends with Senor Ramirez, the AP at that ES”. Her face lit up at hearing his name. “Yes, I know him!”
Tell me about how you spend your time outside of school. “I don’t really do anything.” To this I replied, “What does not doing anything look like?” She then shared that she goes to church on the weekend and I noticed the cross around her neck. She explained she attends a Catholic church. I added “go to church” off the word Interest. I shared how I also take my mom to Catholic Mass on the weekend.
Then, next to the family part of her web, I added a cross and asked to confirm if her family celebrates Christmas. When she agreed, I drew a Christmas tree in the family quatrant of the web. I mentioned this is the same with my family. Again, she smiled. She went on to explain how she has two brothers and that at home they speak Spanish. As I added this info to the family part of the web, I told her that I was jealous, as I can only speak one language.
When I asked for more information about her interest, she remained quiet. I looked at her beautiful eyes, accented with lash extenders. I asked her if she likes to shop for makeup. Instantly, her eyes sparkled, along with a wide smile! I added makeup to the interest quatrant.
This conversation took a total of six minutes. In my opinion, it was an invaluable conversation to have with this new student!






